The Pains of our Past and Present difficulties leave great voids in our lives.  These voids can quickly be replaced by bitterness.  At first, bitterness seems harmless, after all, it is only positioning oneself to be prepared against the next attach, but bitterness is more than this, it is becomes a poison within the heart that creates a cycle of reliving the hurts.  The Lord seeks to Love us out of the pains.  He doesn't want us to have to live with damage of the soul as our main definition to live.   Please join me at the following link as I seek to just be of assistance to you in order that you can start to be healed out of the pains and live more in the present love of Jesus.  It is a journey, but it is worth it.  I speak this from personal experience. http://pastordaniellabitternessseries.weebly.com/